This may come as a shock to you, but I used to wear plus size lingerie and while I was not necessarily proud of it at the time, I realize now that I had nothing to be ashamed of. I looked pretty good. Don’t get me wrong, I look good now too, but I have a new appreciation for women with curves. I am one of those women who aren’t ashamed to wear her curves and strut her stuff and feel good in her skin.
It took me a long time to figure that out. The feeling good in my own skin part. I will never be a size four again. And that is okay with me. It really is. Because I look good; I feel good; I know my man thinks I look good. Did I mention that I look good and feel good? Because that’s all that matters a really: how I feel about Me. Society doesn’t get to tell me how to look or feel anymore. And they shouldn’t tell you either. Of course, I shouldn’t tell you either (lol). Go find yourself some nice lingerie and dress up for you. Go to bed in something soft or slinky for You. Wear something fun for You.
That’s what I did and I’m not looking back. Ever.