I love bars. I'm not going to lie. I like the loud music and the dancing and the atmosphere. I like to people watch! Especially in this setting. While I would have loved to own my own bar (when I was younger, much much younger), now that I am older, I just don't want to deal with all the other stuff that comes with ownership. As an owner, I could not be the one out there dancing all night. I'd have to stay off the tables when I danced. I would have to deal with people who may consume too much and perhaps get into a fight with others. So I decided bar ownership was not my thing.
Then I thought, what about being a DJ? But I know what would happen. Because I know me. I love music. I do. All kinds of music and all kinds of beats and the lighting and spinning of records (what? I already said I was old). I love all of those things. But the reason that I could never be a DJ is simple. I would get stuck playing my favorite songs, to my favorite dj lighting systems and making my own little world in the music. And that wouldn't be fair to all the people who I disregard by playing only what I wanted to hear, when I wanted to hear it. So because I am selfish, and have little self control, I'm not a bar owner and I'm not a dj. I'm in law school. Go figure!